Divorce isn't just something to get through. It's a wake-up call — a chance to take an honest look at how you've been showing up as a man, change what isn't working, and build a life you're proud of. DivorceBro is where men do that work.
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On one end is the Bully — dominance without care. On the other, the Wimp — care without spine. Few men have really thought about where they want to show up between these two extremes. They've been living in a way they didn't choose for themselves; they just inherited it from male role models and social narratives about what a man is supposed to be.
If your marriage has ended, there's a good chance that how you showed up — maybe too much bully, maybe too much wimp — had something to do with it. That's not blame or criticism. It's just information you can learn from to show up differently as you move forward.
Divorce offers an opportunity to take a look at the kind of man you've been, and to decide what kind of man you want to be in the future. To get started, take the DivorceBro Compass — a free self-assessment of how you've been showing up until now.
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You go through the day in a fog, wondering if you'll ever feel in control of your life again.
You lie awake at night, running through what you should have said to your lawyer, your ex, or your kids.
You worry about your kids, your finances, your future, and whether you'll ever be loved again.
This is all perfectly normal. You're going through one of the most difficult transitions a man can face. You can't control what's happening.
But you can control how you show up for it — and you don't have to figure that out alone.
When I got divorced, I felt the overwhelm, the fear of hurting my kids, the loneliness as marital friends turned away. When I looked for resources online, I found Christian podcasts saying God hates divorce and legal podcasts saying I was going to be taken to the cleaners. Not very helpful.
I became a Certified Divorce Coach because I knew how lonely and confusing divorce can be and I wanted to support men going through the process. But I'll be honest: that certification trains you to help a man manage the process of divorce. It doesn't touch the thing that actually determines how he comes out the other side — how he shows up while he's in it and beyond. That's the work DivorceBro was built for.
I've also spent years facilitating peer groups of CEOs, and I bring that same discipline to the groups of men I lead through divorce: honest, confidential, and focused on who you're becoming — not just on what you're going through.
The DivorceBro app gives you structure when everything feels chaotic, and support when you feel alone.
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After my divorce, a small group of divorced friends who met for coffee every week was key to my wellbeing. To make that available to all men going through divorce, I host Saturday morning coffee to foster fellowship and community.
With the right tools, the right brotherhood, and an honest look at how you got here, this ending can be the start of the best chapter of your life. Go through it in a way you'll be proud of — and your kids will be proud of too.
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